
Racine – Cynthia J. (nee: Hempel) Valko, 57, passed away peacefully at her home surrounded by her family and best friend on Tuesday, September 4, 2012 following a courageous 8-month battle with Pancreatic Cancer.
Cynthia was born in Racine on December 11, 1954 to Jacob and Beverly (nee: Wright) Hempel. She attended the schools of Holy Trinity and St. Catherine’s High School. Years later, she went on to earn her nursing degree from Gateway Technical College.
On March 30, 1974 in St. Edward Catholic Church, she was united in marriage with the love of her life, John Raymond Valko, Jr.
With a profound Catholic faith, she was a dedicated member of St. Lucy Catholic Church. Passionate about caring for others, Cindy was employed as a nurse at Ridgewood Care Center. She was also a member of AFSME Local 310. Cindy was an extreme shopper, gifted flower gardener and phenomenal cook. She loved the holidays, especially Thanksgiving and Christmas, by hosting spectacular celebration dinners at her home for family and friends. Above all, Cindy was happiest while being in the surroundings of her entire family. As hard as it was for her due to her illness, she fulfilled her dream of taking her grandchildren to Disney World this past June.
Surviving are her loving husband of 38 years, John, Jr.; their sons, John (Danyele) Valko III and Michael (Stephany) Valko; grandchildren, Alexandrea Rodriguez; Brenden and Naythenn Valko; beloved mother, Beverly Hempel; brothers, Randy Hempel and Tim (Joyce) Hempel; sisters-in-law, Debra (Ron) Scott and Terri (Jim) Bodnar; nieces, nephews, other relatives, her loving dogs, Rocky and Roxanne and her very special friends, Jeff and Renee Nelson along with many, many other friends – too numerous to mention by name.
Cindy was preceded in death by her grandparents, Edward and Della Wright, her father, Jacob Hempel; John’s parents, John Sr. and Arlene “Mickey” Valko and her beloved dogs, Splosh, Benji and Bree.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, September 11, 2012 at 11:00 am in St. Lucy Catholic Church, 3101 Drexel Avenue, with Rev. Mark R. Jones officiating. Interment will follow in West Lawn Memorial Park. Visitation will be in the funeral home on Monday from 5-7 pm (Prayer Service at 7 pm with Rev. Kevin Mieczkowski) and in the church on Tuesday from 10-11 am. In lieu of flowers and in memory of Cindy, memorials to the Pancreatic Cancer Action Network or the family have been suggested.
A special note of thanks to my daughter-in-laws Danyele Valko, Stephany Valko and my son’s John and Michael for their devoted care during this illness and to Dr. Michael Mullane and the entire staff at Aurora Cancer Care for their loving and compassionate care; to Wheaton Franciscan Hospital– Hospice and the Oncology Floor 2D where Cindy was treated with great compassion and care during a recent 15-day stay; to Dr. Ben George, and his entire staff at Froedtert Hospital for the compassionate care and support given in Cindy’s time of need and to Dr. Ned Mejalli for his loving care during the many years as her primary care physician. Also, our sincere gratitude to all our family and friends for the food, gifts, prayers and other acts of kindness offered during the past several months. May God bless all of you!
Julie Velasquez says
The Fellions says
So sorry for your loss. We are here if you need us. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tom Scott and family says
We are so sorry for your loss our prayers go out to you and your family.
mary Land says
John, my deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Jerry & Marianne Matson says
To the Valko Family: John, Jerry & I & the Matson Family is so sorry for your loss of your wife, mother, grandmother, friend…
You are in our thoughts & prayers…
God Bless. Jerry & Marianne
Kevin & Cathy Johnson says
Please accept our deepest sympathy on your family’s loss.
Richard C. Glowacki says
John, Im so very sorry for your loss. Cindy was a great lady and she will be deeply missed by everyone that knew her. My deepest condolences to your family and I pray you will find peace in the fact that her suffering is now over. May God bless you and your entire family as your hearts heal. I love you Brother.
Mike & Stephany Valko says
Thank you everyone for all the prayers and support. This has been a tough time. Mom is no longer suffering now. She will be eternally missed dearly by us all! Not only was she a mother to me but she was one of my best friends too! Always there to help in a time of need. I can’t imagine ever being able to fully accept all this completely, but I can find peace with the fact she is no longer suffering. Thanks again to all our family and friends!!!
Jodie Niles says
Mike,
What a beautifully written sentiment about your mother. I’m grateful that I had the chance to know her.
My heart goes out to you and your family at this time. XO
Ron and Debbie Scott says
Sorry for your loss, John just remember Cindy is no longer suffering or with pain. Remember we are all here for you anytime Day and night. Beautiful service.