
James C. Friday, 82, passed away unexpectedly at Wheaton Franciscan–All Saints on Wednesday, January 30, 2013, surrounded by his family. He was born in Waukesha, WI on December 23, 1930, the son of the late Maurice “Pat” and Margaret “Myrtle” (nee: Weinert) Friday.
Jim married the love of his life, the former Bonnie Barca, in Brighton, WI on September 6, 1970. They had one daughter, Sarah — without a doubt the light of his life. He graduated Phi Beta Kappa from the University of Wisconsin and in 1998 retired from the State of Wisconsin Department of Health and Social Services. First and foremost, Jim was a professional musician, playing bass in the Milwaukee area for over 60 years. On the road at 16, he toured the country during the Big Band Era. Returning home, he played with local musicians such as Chuck Hedges, Frank De Miles, and Jerry Blake, last playing with the Grant Krueger Orchestra. Jim also backed up national touring acts such as Tony Bennett, Etta James, Pearl Bailey, Sophie Tucker, Tiny Tim, and many others. He was a member of the Milwaukee Musicians’ Local #8. Jim served his country with the U.S. Army during the Korean War. Jim enjoyed cooking everything from casual dinners to Christmas feasts for family and friends, especially providing meals for his aunt, Eleanor Jones. He was famous for his chocolate chip cookies. Jim was an avid reader, enjoying detective novels and devouring books on quantum physics. An excellent writer, he faithfully journaled both daily happenings and life’s absurdities. He was a friendly person with a gentle soul who enjoyed discussing the vastness of the universe and other philosophical questions. He was especially fond of his two grandchildren, Alex and Ashlyn, and his feline children, Annie and Bob.
Surviving are his devoted wife Bonnie; his beloved daughter and son-in-law, Sarah Friday and Jon Fredrickson, of Caledonia; grandchildren, Alexander and Ashlyn; cherished sister, Patricia (Richard) Levenick, of Ann Arbor, MI; stepmother-in-law, Joyce Barca, brother-in-law, Peter (Kathleen) Barca, and sister-in-law, Elizabeth (Michael) Schrandt, all of Kenosha. Jim is also survived by his nieces and nephews, Ann Levenick, of Ann Arbor, MI, James (Sara Amato) Levenick, of Salem, OR, William (Katie) Levenick, of Rochester, MN, Abrianna Barca, of Madison, WI, Peter J. Barca, of the Bronx, NY, Katelyn (fiancé Louie Martin) Schrandt, and Erin Schrandt both of Kenosha; special aunt, Eleanor Jones, of Kenosha; and special cousins James and Barbara Jones of Somers and Tom and Mary Jones of Elkhorn, as well as other cousins, relatives, and friends. In addition to his parents, Jim was preceded in death by his father-in-law, Peter Barca, and his mother-in-law, Jean Barca.
Special thanks to the caring staff of All Saints’ ICU. In keeping with Jim’s wishes, cremation and a family gathering will be held. The family has suggested memorials can be made to the Salvation Army, 1901 Washington Avenue, Racine, WI 53403.
Rebecca Carriveau says
I will miss you “Dad” Friday.
Kathy Sprester says
Dear Bonnie, Sarah, and family,
I am so very sorry to hear of the passing of your loving husband and father, Jim. His life was full experiencing the difficulties of defending our country for which we thank him, serving humanity with his career in human services, sharing his musical aplomb and most of all his devotion to his family. While your loss must be overwhelming, may you find peace in the days ahead with the love and support of those around you. Jim and I send our deepest sympathy…………
Joanne Boman says
Oh Bonnie…my heart goes out to you and Sarah. I’m so sorry about your loss of Jim. His obitituary was absolutely beautiful. What a guy he must have been.
All my love….Joanne
Jean henderson says
Bonnie and family,
We were so sorry to learn from Kathy of your great loss in the death of Jim.
What a wonderful man he was -a man of depth and passion who will certainly be missed greatly. May your lives continue to be enriched by his spirit,love and the cherished memories you all shared and your deep sorrow be shared by all of us who care so much about all of you. with deepest sympathy, jean and John
Jean Henderson says
Dear Bonnie and family,
How sad we were to learn from Kathy of your great loss in Jim’s death What a special and thoughtful man-full of passion and life -he sounds like the very special life partner you deserved. May your love, shared memories and very special experiences together help you as we’ll as the deep concern of all of us who care about you.
Jean & John Henderson