Thomas W. Bernhardt

Service Details

The family will be conducting the memorial mass at St. Lucy Catholic Church, 3801 Drexel Ave., on Thursday, May 27^th at 6:00 p.m. with Rev. Mark R. Jones officiating. Visitation will be at the church on that Thursday from 5:00 p.m. until the time of the Mass.

Thomas William Bernhardt passed away unexpectedly in St. Cloud, Minnesota on May 13^th, 2021 due to a bicycle accident. He was born in Racine, Wisconsin on February 9^th, 1964, and called many places home.

Tom, affectionately known by his family as Dude, was raised in Racine, Wisconsin. He graduated from St. Catherine’s High School in 1982. He pursued his Associates of Science Degree in Dairy Herd Management from the University of Minnesota-Waseca, graduating in 1984. After college, Tom spent some time working in Mora, Minnesota on a dairy farm when he met his wife Bonnita Bernhardt (Lietha).

Tom and Bonnita married on November 28^th, 1987 in Racine, Wisconsin and relocated to Sauk Rapids, Minnesota. They were blessed with their daughters Elizabeth and Brianna, both born in St Cloud, Minnesota. Tom was a grateful stay-at-home father for many years. As the owner and operator of Thomas Bernhardt Photography, he took a very active role in raising the girls while capturing memories through photography. Tom was also active in the local Rotary Club and Muskies Inc.

As the girls grew up, Tom made a career move and signed on with UPS, where he maintained a strong safe driving record throughout his 20+ year career. He found a renewed passion for motorcycles and bicycles, and he shared this passion with his wife, daughters, and friends. As an active member of the ADV Riders, he had many friends near and far. Tom never knew a stranger and his company was appreciated by all.

Tom was an avid storyteller, making him the life of every party and conversation. He enjoyed good food, good coffee (until he gave it up for his health), and a good audience. He also had a mysterious passion for gas station sushi. Despite living in Minnesota, his mastery of the grill earned him the title of barbeque pit master for his deliciously prepared ribs, brisket, and other “low and slow” meats. He has been a friend of Bill W for over 31 years.

His children were his pride and joy. When his youngest daughter Brianna moved to Big Sandy to teach high school agriculture, you could not have found a prouder father. He loved having coffee and pastries at Bear Paw Coffee Shop & Deli. He enjoyed telling everyone about the Big Sandy Chainsaw Massacre. He considered Mark and Cheryl’s house on the prairie his second home and enjoyed every minute he spent there.

His eldest daughter Elizabeth earned a physics PhD and now sells lasers to the government. Unfortunately, the lasers are not made for sharks, a feature Tom consistently advocated for.

Dogs brought joy to Tom’s life; he has many photos of dogs he met while delivering for UPS. He doted on his chuhuahua-dachshund mix Polly, playing fetch with her, taking her on car rides, and spoiling her while waiting for the birth of his first grandchild, Kimberly Marie. Bella, another mini dachshund, also enjoys the good life, just at a more leisurely pace.

Thomas is survived by his wife Bonnita Bernhardt; two daughters Elizabeth (Viktor Bollen) Bernhardt, and Brianna (Cameron) Nelson; his dog Polly and Bonnita’s dog Bella; his parents Edward and Mary Ann Bernhardt; and his siblings Debra (Diana) Bernhardt, Barbara (Peter) Weber, Michael (Carrie) Bernhardt, and Renee Bernhardt; and many imaginary internet friends.

A celebration of life was held in St. Cloud, Minnesota and Racine, Wisconsin simultaneously on May 13^th. Celebrations continue across the state and country in his name. Donations in his name can be made to the Tri-County Humane Society at the website: https://tricountyhumanesociety.org/how-to-help/donate/overview.html